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chimommi New Member |
posted 05-15-2006 12:33 PM
 
I am so glad I found this Christian chat for single parents. I was with my ex for 4 years before we had our daughter who is now 15 mos. old. He moved out when she was 4 mos. at my request b/c he had become emotionally and physically abusive. I didn't want him to leave for good, but I wanted him to find himself and get better so that he could be a good man to me and a good father to her. He never came back. And here I am over a year later still crying every single day. I hate myself for not being strong enough to let go and move on. My problem has been that I am still holding on to the dream of being a family...that he will come back. He has moved out of state and we don't hear from him anymore. He made a few calls expressing that we needed to be a family and that when he returned to town that we needed to work it out and that he loved us. Yesterday on Mother's day he called from a "Private Number" and left a message that he would call back. He never did. My soul is crying out for peace. Please name me in your prayers (Lisa) so that I can accept the healing that the Lord has for me and move on from the pain that has swallowed me for the past year. I feel like a shell. I would truly love any words of support and prayer. Lisa |
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Bluebird Member |
posted 05-15-2006 02:25 PM
Welcome Lisa, I am so sorry for your loss and sadness. Sometimes it is is so hard to move on and build a new life after a break-up... so hard to let go of that dream of a family with this man. If he was abusive, I think it is better that he is gone. Maybe he'll get help and find his way back to you, and maybe he won't. I think that, in any case, your faith and trust in God will see you through. A good friend of mine has a saying that always helps me: "Don't think of it as rejection, think of it as protection." God is protecting you from this man's abuse. Trust in His plan for you. I'll say prayers for you to find and rejoice in the blessings in your life-- as it is now. |
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JAYJAY Member |
posted 05-15-2006 11:52 PM
Welcome, You will find the peace you need. God has a reason for all the things he does. you are in our prayers. God bless, -x-x- |
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