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Topic: Dating...
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ladybugss Member
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posted 09-17-2005 01:15 PM
Well, I've been dating a wonderful man from church for a little while now. We were chatting and he mentioned that the next time we get together, we should talk about us. I told him that was a good idea. We've been having such a good time getting to know one another. Pray that God will be the center of whatever is to follow with the two of us and that our relationship will glorify him. I'm excited to see where this is going!Deb |
JAYJAY Member
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posted 09-17-2005 03:35 PM
Lets hope this is an on going and wonderful thing. Gods blessings. -x- + |
opie36 Member
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posted 09-29-2005 09:38 AM
How are things going so far? I will pray that God will strengthen your relationship. |
ladybugss Member
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posted 10-01-2005 06:42 AM
Things were going well, but with the stress of my brother living here, I'm not certain how it's going. We haven't officially defined the relationship other than we enjoy each others company. However, he constantly mentions how much he wants to settle down. Does that mean he sees that with me and if so, what are his plans for growing the relationship? I've decided that I need to hear it from the horses mouth. There are no gauruntees in life and I don't expect solid definitions of where we are, but I need to know where we stand. So much has been up in the air between the litte bro and work, that I don't want this to get in the way either. Either way, I'm still working to ready myself for marriage, whether this leads to that with Daniel or some other man, I'll at least be ready! Deb |
ladybugss Member
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posted 10-09-2005 04:36 PM
Well, well, well, Daniel and I had a wonderful day yesterday! I can let myself fall deeply for this man! It's official, we are in a dating relationship and both of us desire to be married at some point! Now, that doesn't mean that God's filled us in and said this is the relationship that leads to marriage, but, we're not dating because we're bored and we both see something there.He's an amazing man! He's got such a strong character and I'm smitten! I have to be honest, I didn't think that I'd find someone I enjoyed so much. Today in church, he signed a song by Casting Crowns. It was such a treat to see him do that. Although, I love it when he sings too! He leaves for a missions trip to Turkey next Saturday. Sar and I went to lunch with him, the group of people who are going and their families today. It was really nice (except for the fact that Sarah is a little nuts right now)! Anyway, I'm done gushing for now! Please keep praying that God will guide us both in this relationship and that we stay open to His will. And if you think about it, pray for the four people from Grace that are going over to Turkey. Blessing to you all, Deb |
lexiesmom Member
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posted 10-09-2005 06:04 PM
HE signs?? Ok now I am jealous, do you have any idea how hard it is to find a guy that signs. And havig a deaf daughter I am around the culture daily. GLad to hear things are going well. Does he have any friends??? I am soo ready to move I am sick of the stuck on themselves california guys. |
leigh1517 Member
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posted 10-09-2005 09:11 PM
Wow, I'm so happy for you. He sounds like a very special man! Isn't love wonderful? |
cgracec Member
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posted 10-10-2005 12:22 AM
He sounds wonderful. I am happy for you and will keep you in my prayers. |
JAYJAY Member
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posted 10-10-2005 01:23 AM
Good for you, maybe this love thing is catching. Who will be next i wonder? -x-x- |
2setsofroses Member
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posted 10-10-2005 08:11 AM
Hi Deb...So, so happy for you. He sounds like a wonderful man...One that you are truly deserving of. Haven't been on in awhile so if I missed this sorry...How is Sar handling your new relationship? My brother was a missionary (now a pastor) and spent much time in Istambul Turkey. He always loved his time spent there. Praying for a truly wonderful trip there! Many Blessings Deb...Marilyn |
mommyof2 Member
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posted 10-10-2005 01:12 PM
Congratulations it’s nice hearing such positive and uplifting stories. I will keep you all in my prayers.Lisa |
ladybugss Member
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posted 10-10-2005 09:27 PM
Thanks guys! I feel like a cautious school girl. It seems to good to be true, but it is! I'm amazed at the man he is. Sometimes I think "Goodness, I don't know that I'm good enough for him." And then God kicks me in the rear and says "You're my child and you deserve the best." He's right. When I gave my life up to Him, all my sins were foregiven and a new life was born. What an amazing God we have!Lexismom - I thought of you when he signed the song. I too want to learn how to sign. There is a deaf little boy in our church that a couple adopted from China. Every time he sees me, he comes and gives me a hug. He's so precious and I want to be able to communicate with him. As for Daniel, he worked with special needs kids quite a bit. He told me at one time they had about 4 deaf kids there and he to learn it pretty quickly. Marilyn - I'm so glad to see you posting again. What have you been up to? I've missed hearing from you! Sarah doesn't really know that Daniel is someone special. Although, she does want something to happen. Daniel is on the latest list of men that she thinks I should marry! She came up to me this morning and asked me if he was my boyfriend. I told her that he was a good friend of mine. She scrunched her shoulders up and said "Have you kissed him?" I was floored and then I couldn't stop laughing. It's like a mini picture of what it's going to be like in 5-7 years! Anyway, she knows that we've hung out over the last few weeks and I know that little mind will have it all figured out before I'm ready to tell her. Daniel will make a great father some day. How does all this dating stuff go again? It's so wierd, but I feel like a teenager. Daniel is ready to let the world see that he's dating me and that makes me feel so special! And, he's respectful of the fact that Sarah can't go out with us or see any affectionate displays Anyway, I'm sitting there going "Do I lean into him when he puts his arm around me in church?" (Sarah leaves for kids church after the singing.) I want to, but is it going to fast? I stink at this. Where is the manual - LOL! Thank you again for your encouragement and prayers! I want to honour God with this relationship regardless of where it goes. Sarah needs a good example of a healthy dating relationship and I want to be able to tell her of this one, one day! Your prayers will help keep both Daniel and I strong in Him. Blessings to you all, Deb |
2setsofroses Member
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posted 10-10-2005 11:13 PM
Hey Deb...What a wonderful story and one that should be a testiment to how one should feel in a relationship. We've all certainly been through so much with past relationships along with our children. We should expect nothing less than a completely joyful relationship! I must say, that it is quite sad to read and hear of those that walk repetetively in reckless relationships along with their children. Praying that they reexamine their value and worth.Any way, I am still single and not dating. I know some would say, "You have to make some time for yourself" when I say, THERE JUST ISN'T ANY TIME! I say that jokingly but the truth is, life is busier than ever. I am working now as a Teacher's Ast. in my boys school who by the way are now in second and 5th grade. My younger twins are playing football while my older ones are playing baseball. Getting homework done afterschool with the four of them in time to get them all out to their practices and games is quite an adventure as you can well imagine. They are really doing great though and I am very proud of all of them. So there it is in a nutshell. I am going to my 25th reunion Sat. night and spending the night at a hotel! Looking forward to that. I'll try to stop in more often...Enjoy your relationship...You seem so, so happy! God Bless...Marilyn |
cgracec Member
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posted 10-11-2005 07:08 PM
It is wonderful to hear that things are going so well for you. God is truly amazing. |
ladybugss Member
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posted 10-11-2005 09:03 PM
I'm glad things are busy, but well with you! I know what you mean on the time front. My kitchen is a scary place right now. Plus with my little bro living here, things smell interesting. I think boys bring in all kinds of "interesting" odors! I can only imagine if I had four to run after. That's a full time job and then some!
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