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visitation worries- please help!!

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rebeccalouise Member	posted 04-29-2009 07:55 AM Hi basically I am 38 weeks pregnant with my 1st baby. Me and my partner were together for 2 years until i left when i was 4months pregnant due to his blurred social boundaries. He has behavioural problems and learning diffculties, but he would do frightening things to me in the house; ie pick the bathroom lock when i was in the bathroom, insist on doing a vaginal internal on me if i had a bug, talk to 3 year old family members about sex etc... He has hardly been in touch since I left however when he does contact me he tells me that he will see the baby when he likes when its born and not when i say so. Ive expressed my concerns to my midwife and said that I dont see that he poses a risk to the child when im present, once a week for a couple of hours. I dont know what to do to make sure he gets no more than this... im surviving on 2 hours sleep a night and vomiting because im so tired with 2 weeks until my due date. Please help!! xxx
elena9214 Member	posted 05-01-2009 12:35 AM you need to stay calm! your baby can sense everything you feeling!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! now, once you've calmed down, stop talking to him!!!! if he STILL bothers you, get a restraint order! if you're scared of him, so will your child be.

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