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Bluebird
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posted 09-29-2006 04:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Bluebird   Click Here to Email Bluebird     Edit/Delete Message
You're gonna think I and my daughter are crazy, but here goes. I just have to tell you this story!

I just posted a topic in Fitness & Health about how sick I have felt lately. Monday night, I felt horrible and went to bed early. I felt too sick to even sleep, so just lay there in the dark. I was facing away from my bedroom door... and all the lights in the house were out. My daughter had turned her light out maybe a half-hour before.

I remember hearing sounds-- I thought my daughter was up again. I thought I was hearing my own dresser drawers open and close... but it sounded kind of far away. I turned over onto my back and saw a light from the hallway go out... it looked like her bedroom light had just gone out. I thought she had gotten up and was just going back to sleep.

Within just a couple of minutes, I opened my eyes and she was in my doorway asking me, "What are you doing?" I was lying in bed and said, "Nothing, what are you doing?"

She said, "I saw that your light was just on and was coming to see what you're doing".... I said, "Your light was on, not mine, what are you doing?"

She also said she thought I was in the bathroom looking for something; she heard the opening-closing drawer sounds, too.

We were a little spooked and alarmed.... went downstairs to look around. All was secure... storm doors locked, double bolts locked, bolt to basement door locked. My nose is so sensitive, I can smell if someone strange has been in a room. Everything was fine down there.

We are so freaked out. How could we have had had the same dream or hallucination? I know I saw that hall light... heard my drawer sounds. How could she have heard the same thing??

Okay... here's the heart of it. I inherited a big, fat diamond ring from my mother when she passed away 3 years ago. She loved that ring, but I have been thinking of selling it because, well, I am broke and need to pay some debts!! It was a really tough decision. It seemed like something always stood in the way of me actually selling the ring for about a year. I finally sold it 2 weekends ago.

Get this. My daughter pointed this out to me.... I kept that ring in my dresser drawer!!

We are pretty crazy, I guess. We're wondering if my mother (a ghost!) was searching those drawers for that ring! What do you all think? Isn't this weird? It felt sooooo strange... we both saw and heard the same thing, but neither of us had been up out of bed.

p.s. The night my mother died, someone tried to break into the back door at her house.... at the exact moment her heart was stopping, the door was jiggling like someone was trying to get in. We've always wondered (other family members wondered, too) if she had tried (in spirit) to come home to take care of her beloved puppy).

I've since talked to my mother... told her that I love and cherish the jewelry she gave me, but that I would never wear that big diamond... that it should be on a happy bride's finger, rather than in a safe deposit drawer at the bank (where I kept it when not planning to sell it).

If I'm crazy, please send help.

[This message has been edited by Bluebird (edited 09-29-2006).]

[This message has been edited by Bluebird (edited 09-29-2006).]

Bluebird
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posted 10-09-2006 05:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Bluebird   Click Here to Email Bluebird     Edit/Delete Message
Did anyone read this?

lexiesmom
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posted 10-10-2006 12:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lexiesmom     Edit/Delete Message
I did
A different spin, maybe she was trying to remind you it was there to help you out? I would rather see lex have the things she needs in life than something she would never use or enjoy. Granted she wasnt selling it to buy things for her boyfriend or drugs or something. But if she needed the money and I was no longer around I would remind her that it was there for her to help her.

Bluebird
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posted 10-10-2006 10:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Bluebird   Click Here to Email Bluebird     Edit/Delete Message
I wondered that, too. I had already sold the ring a couple of weeks before this happened.

Thanks for writing, Erica. This was a really strange experience-- I really wanted others' thoughts.

lexiesmom
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posted 10-10-2006 09:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lexiesmom     Edit/Delete Message
Maybe her timing was just off, if you cant wear diamonds in heaven you can't wear watches either You always hear our time isn't Gods time, maybe everyone in Heaven is on their own time frame. Or maybe she was just saying, I know you sold it and used the money towards things you needed, and it's ok, know that I am not mad or upset.
I never got to tell my grandmother good bye, she died during the winter and I was living in Reno and couldn't get to Sacramento for the funeral, it would be nice for her to let me know sometimes that it was ok that I wasn't there.

sandra
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posted 01-30-2007 06:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sandra   Click Here to Email sandra     Edit/Delete Message
hi Bluebird, know this is an older post, but just saw it and wanted to reply also....(btw dont feel bad, I posted something very important 2 weeks ago, and didnt get any replies....it's kind of a bummer when that happens!!)

anyways, i agree that your mom would want Lexi to have things she needs (and for you too) rather than saving it in a drawer..I think your thought you shouldnt sell it maybe is just false guilt..sometimes we can put the importance of certain past feelings or memories onto an object, like a ring. The ring itself while important to your mom, would not be more important to her than you guys having enough to get by on.
I do think that somehow people in heaven can send their love or a message, dont know how that is...

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