posted 03-10-2006 11:53 AM            

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Anyone out there willing to listen and maybe even shoot me back a line?

My nick-name is Leacie and I am new to this site. I havea 3-month-old son named Aviyon and am a situation I can't seem to get out of. My sons father is a lying, cheating, worthless piece of you know what. He's controlling, emotionally abusive, and oh so annoying..But guess what? I'm the problem. How many of you have heard this one before?
I told him as a couple of days ago that we are through. I told him he can turn to all the other young women, younger then my 25 years. I'm done! The first thing I ask him when we get up in the morning..is, "Do you know how unhappy your making me, and because of this, do you know how much I want to hate you?
Please send anything for hope, thanks a bunch, Leacie

posted 03-12-2006 10:54 AM            

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Hi Leacie,

It is so sad to read of yet another woman who is being hurt like this. You may have read how many there are on this site who deal with similar circumstances.

It is my hope that you'll awake in the morning and, instead of asking him the questions, ask yourself, "Do I want to contine to live like this?" You certainly deserve and want better for yourself.

Getting out of and moving on from a destructive relationship is painful, but in the long run is best. If you stay, you'll just be miserable.

posted 03-12-2006 11:55 AM         

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Welcome,

Blue is right, just move on.

No one has the right to make us feel bad,
you owe it to yourself to make a life
for you and your child.

Dont let him make you unhappy.
Life can be hard on your own, but you are not happy with him and life gets better and someone better will come a long.

-x-x-

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