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Topic: How about mental health???
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lkellyhappy1 Member
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posted 08-11-2004 07:27 PM
SUMMER MUST END SO THAT WE CAN ALL GO BACK TO SCHOOL!!! I CANT TAKE ALL OF THIS RELAXING ANYMORE!!! So how are you all doing? I am loosing all sense of time and space. |
leigh1517 Member
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posted 08-11-2004 08:22 PM
You're right! A schedule is a good thing to get back to. I teach school and have been getting my classroom and everything else ready. My youngest son will be playing JV and Varsity football so he's been having practice at 6:00 in the morning and my oldest is in Golf so he's been having practice at 7:00. Their practices just started Monday and I have to take my 15 yr. old at 5:45 am...we're exhausted! |
mommyof2 Member
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posted 08-12-2004 01:32 PM
Think of this time off as a way to rejuvenate. Yes it will be nice to be back on a schedule but the one thing I am not looking forward to is having to get up at 5:20 a.m. to start my day and make sure the kids are dressed, feed, and off to school. I have to admit its nice being able to get up at 6:00 a.m. and have my cup of coffee and breakfast and watch the morning news. Speaking of school Leigh I have put together a kit for each child in my son’s classroom that consist of a colored plastic box with pencils, pencil grips, erasers, glue sticks, crayons, scissors, tissues, and a snack as well as treat in each. I also bought these cool name plates that have the alphabet line, number line, 12” ruler, and handy references such as. For the teacher I got a plastic apple filled with stamps and a teacher’s planner book, stationary set, and some incentive gifts for the teacher to give to the kids. My son is going into 3rd grade and I wanted to insure that not only he, but all the kids in the class start off with the proper tools. This will be the second year that he has Mr. Cox as his teacher. This is my way of thanking him for all the love and devotion that he has shown to his students. You see my son is a special need child and under his supervision he has learned a lot and I am hoping for another good year. Let me ask you something do you find it difficult to get parents involved? How can parents who work full time get involved? It breaks my heart that I cannot volunteer in both my kids’ classroom? Not that my daughter would want me around she’s going into 8th grade . I want to do as much as I can to be a active part in helping and doing my share, so any advise you give will be greatly appreciated. Lisa
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leigh1517 Member
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posted 08-12-2004 10:20 PM
Lisa, you sound like a very supportive parent. Just doing what you described is a huge contribution to the class and to the teacher, even if you can't attend parties and such. I wish I had your third grader in my class this year! Parents who do things like that are far and few between and it's always so appreciated by the teacher and the kids. The children of those parents know they're cared for deeply because most parents don't take the time to do those types of things. Do you know when parties are planned ahead of time? Can you take the day off to be there for the parties? If not, just send in a special treat and then your son or daughter can pass it out to the class. Luckily, things like Open House and conferences are planned in the evenings so working parents can usually attend. I'm getting excited to get back to work now that I have my master's classes completed. It was so hard to work, raise teens, and get my classes in on top of all of that. This year I can focus on my students more. Plus, I haven't been seeing Larry and I really miss him but I just can't keep up the pace. My family and friends know what a great man he is and I think they think I'm crazy for taking this break from him, but...well, I guess this should be another post, but do you single parents understand why I can't seem to squeeze him in?
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lkellyhappy1 Member
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posted 08-13-2004 06:15 AM
I TOTALY understand..sorry to hear it...I wish some of us could live happily ever after...sorry to hear it dear...congrats on your masters though...Im sure you are making the right decision for you  |
mommyof2 Member
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posted 08-13-2004 12:02 PM
Leigh, to answer your question I do give 3 parties a year for my son’s class as I have always done for my daughter when she was in elementary school, one on there birthday and the second on valentines day, and third at the end of the school year. I fill the room with balloons for each child, teacher, and aids, pass out treats, and have a buffet of food. Boy how I love watching those little faces light up. The teacher is great and always tries to work around my schedule. I would love to be a teacher, but it’s just not in the cards. As for your hectic lifestyle that does not allow you the time to spend with Larry, I have learned that we just have to make the time. Don’t put your life on a shelf while finishing up school and raising your kids. Take time to enjoy what you are working so hard for. My sister is doing the same thing working long hard hours, attending classes, study groups, house work, home work, each time we invite her somewhere she has the same excuse I can’t I have to study. This has been going on for 5 years, at what point does she finally say the heck with it, I’m going out and having some fun. She’s always stressed and complaining about how much she has to do that she is letting life pass her by. It may take some juggling, but you can definitely make the time to spend with Larry. Don’t pass up a great guy the are hard to come by . Best wishes. Lisa "The best and safest thing is to keep a balance in your life, acknowledge the great powers around us and in us. If you can do that, and live that way, you are really a wise man." Euripides "At times, it is difficult to keep a proper balance in our lives. But, over time, an improper balance will lead to problems." Catherine Pulsifer [This message has been edited by mommyof2 (edited 08-13-2004).] |
leigh1517 Member
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posted 08-14-2004 05:42 PM
Thanks you guys. I hope that I come to the conclusion that you offer Lisa. I don't want to let a great thing slip away. I think I need this break to figure myself out. I've been praying a lot about so I think if I keep that up things will work out for the best. |