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MARZTUS New Member |
posted 01-16-2010 10:58 PM
  
I am trying to do the right thing, in my new situation. I am 6.5 months pregnant with my first child and my husband decided to leave me 2 weeks ago. We have been married 3.5 years, he came here from Cuba 3 years ago when i sponsored him. I still have legal obligation for him until May. After i found yet another email between him and another woman he told me that he had decided 3 months ago that he no longer wanted to be with me... he said he was staying with me for the baby. Our relationship had tons of ups and downs, dealing with cultural differences, infedelity (on his part), jealousy and insecurity (from me)and some horrible fights. I did think that we would work through it all and as part of life and marriage there would be some ups and downs. we had many beautiful moments together as well.... He wanted to continue living here until after baby is born, but i couldnt do it..emotionally i cant handle seeing him everyday and not having the relationship with him that i want. He states he wants to be there for the child but i am learning that this is not as easy as it sounds. Being an immigrant, i basically have dont everything for him in the last 3.5 years, he is now learning how to support himself, which he is not handling well. He does not know how to get an apartment, take a bus, set an alarm clock... the list goes on. I have helped him find a place, driven him to appts. and i feel so stressed as i continue to support him and help him build his own life while trying to figure out the life for me and my unborn son. He wants to help but doesnt seem to be able to without me helping him to help himself.... confusing or WHAT??? WE have been talking, sometimes ok and sometimes fighting... i with i new some answers and mabey time will tell... any advice out there? |
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