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Topic: I dont know what to do
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fairylilly3 New Member
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posted 04-29-2009 06:29 PM
My husband had walked out of the house more than a month ago, said he was getting the divorce. That he was through with me, had never loved me, no feelings after 10 years. We have three children which he only sees when he wants to, call when he wants to which is hardly ever. I pretty sure that he was having a affair, dont know where he is living. But he took our children sunday out to see his dog which was at a girls house. What I dont understand is that he has left the kids and I, living his own single life now, but has not filed for divorce yet? I dont know what to do. |
Charlies_Mama Member
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posted 05-26-2009 08:22 PM
honestly...GO FILE! He isn't going to have this mind blowing night and realize he made a huge mistake. I thought my ex would...and yea we are 2 months split up and about 4 months away from being finally divorced. He is out having his fun and being single, you should have the right to be able to move on and be happy with your life. ------------------ Maggie |
purple Member
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posted 05-28-2009 09:30 AM
Make sure you a have a really good lawyer that knows the law inside and out and their way arund a courtroom, if u dont trust your lawyer find a new one - immediately, that's my advice. His dog was at a girl's house and you have three children to raise, you rmbr that. You did nothing wrong, you gave him ten years and he messed up and he'll realize that, life will get better and you will be happy but you need to handle this right now and keep yourself together for yourself and for your kids. Get a really good lawyer that you trust and knows the law. Make sure you don't have to worry about money. Money should be the last thing on your mind right now - keep it together for you and your kids right now. |