singlemum2b08 New Member
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posted 09-19-2008 10:30 AM
I was with my boyfriend 15 months and we moved in together after 2 or 3. It was very intense from the start and it was as though we were married,living together and very settled.He was always very possessive and wouldn't let me speak to anyone or look at anyone without analysing my every word and move and challenging me about it afterwards. Anyway, after 7 months together we discussed having a baby, he was well up for the idea, and as i mistook possessiveness for security, i thought he'd be a great dad and stick by me. I then got pregnant after a year together and he turned into a psychopath, started drinking loads and emotionally abusing me after i told him i was pregnant. It was as though he'd just got me pregnant to pin me down so i wouldn't leave him, but i had to as the abuse got so bad. I can't believe how much he changed and now ive left him he isn't interested in me or the baby and hasn't even put up a fight to get us back. I feel so conned  |