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AustinsMamma2007 Member |
posted 02-03-2008 07:25 AM
  
My son's sperm doner has never seen his son, he doesn't care to. I will never let him back into my life, no matter how hard he tries. I'm not going to let him ruin my baby's life as much as he's messed with mine. I can't stand him! But he has a picture of my son on his profile, that he somehow stole from me, and it's titled "My Son". I want to shoot him in the head, although it's not very Motherly of me I just can't stand him. Am I right to be this angry? |
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Momma2 Member |
posted 03-07-2008 08:29 PM
yeah, I think you have a right to be upset. But there isn't anything you can do about it, and soon, your son will change, and grow older, and that one little picture won't make a difference. Its not worth it to get upset over. It takes to much energy that needs to be spent on your son. |
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oaodiva Member |
posted 03-14-2008 08:21 PM
I know how you feel. I understand your anger and wish he could feel the frustration he has caused. I'm in a similar situation with my daughter's father (who I call the donor). He is a total asshole. He has seen his child 3 times total. She is now 4 months old. And I haven't heard from him in 3 wks except for a couple text msgs with excuses. He is too much of a damn coward to pick up the phone. It just makes me sick. I just tell myself that even though it's stressful being a single mother, I have to just look at my baby and remember that she is a blessing. I can't let the stress get to me b/c I don't want it affecting my life. The donors of the world don't deserve any of our time or thoughts. |
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wandadave79 Member |
posted 03-28-2008 11:31 PM
The sperm donor has a picture. And you have your son. You have the smiles when you talk to your son -he has the picture. You have the giggles and touch of your wonderful son and he has the picture. You have the knowledge of what your son is doing, growing, etc and when he is asked about his "son" well - he has the picture and no answers. Enjoy your son when you kiss him goodnight - it just isn't the same as a picture. Don't be angry, upset, or hurt. That picture will never love him, it won't change. Thank God that you have your son and he has the "Picture". Wow!!! What he is going to miss in YOUR sons lifetime. |
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jwg Member |
posted 03-29-2008 01:45 PM
Everything wandadave said is true. You have your son and his love. My guess would be that your ex put your son's photo on his profile in order to make himself look more appealing to women. Sadly, it's a ploy that works. My ex described several fictitious interactions and conversations with my son in his profile. It was laughable because they never happened (I asked my son who never forgets a thing or misses a detail). Even though the statements weren't true, it still irked me that he was indirectly using my son as a decoy to attract women and make himself look sensitive. Try not to let the picture bother you because you have the real deal with your son. |
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