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jasond Member |
posted 11-04-2007 12:45 AM
  
What do I do? My ex will call every now and again cussing me out for who knows why and tell me to come and get my f***ing daughter. Madalyn is only 2,well her age doesn't matter but I feel so bad for her. I always run to get her, usually in the middle of the night. Well I just got one of those calls again. All I got out was a "hi" and the rest was her saying "f" you fin daughter. I just don't understand how a person could say that about their own child. I have confronted my ex concerning this before and she would tell me she was just testing me or she wanted to go out and party. The only thing that rings in my head is Madalyn crying so I know there is more to it. What else can I do? I have to go get her and deal with it. At least I get to be with my awesome daughter. Sorry if this does not make any sense I am kind of upset and always feel like I am walking into a trap, fight, the scary unknown when I go to her place on one of these calls. ------------------ |
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AustinsMamma2007 Member |
posted 02-03-2008 07:23 AM
I say to file for custody. Obviously your ex is NOT doing a good job with her and cannot give her a loving home that she deserves. Write down dates and times that your ex calls telling you to get your daughter, write down what she says as well, it will help you. Your daughter really does not need to be around it's Mother if she's going to do that. |
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Momma2 Member |
posted 03-07-2008 08:27 PM
Record every incident, whether good or bad. Record dates, times, exactly what happened and what was said. Go to court. Get custody. |
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Bronzzy New Member |
posted 03-31-2008 02:52 AM
Go get your daughter , she needs you ,bring a videocamera or tape recorder and a cell phone in case of confrontations.Many men have problems when it comes to custody and getting custody of thier children .I know I did , I was very intimidated because I had no one to help me take care of my sons while I was at work . I found a few websites , like nannysrus.com and found someone who can watch my sons while I am at work in exchange for a room to live in. [This message has been edited by Bronzzy (edited 03-31-2008).] |
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kimber72 Member |
posted 05-02-2008 08:55 PM
I hate to say this, but in certain states all the documentation in the world is not going to help you. I did that for my daughters, when the ex would not show, and when he would drop them off early, how often he would say he never needs to see them again if he does not feel like it. He even made that coment to the parenting time mediator. The best advice I can offer you is that your ex is angry at something (most likely you for whatever reason: right or wrong) and that anger has been displaced onto your daughter. If this is all happening, your daughter will not want to be with her mom when she gets older. Just make sure you are there for her, tell her how much her mom loves her. And if possible bring your daughter to consiling (yes some do it as young as 2, it is more like play therapy, but it might help). Also if possible get the ex involved. Besides children, unless one is abusive do need two parents. Belive me I know this is hard. I would like nothing more than for my ex to say he never wants to see his kids again and actually mean it. But as crappy as a dad he is, they love him and still need him. |
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