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NYsinglemom New Member |
posted 10-22-2007 03:25 PM
  
I have a 2yr old boy. His father left me for another women when we found out i was pregnant, he was back 2mnths later. He and I were "together" threw out the pregnancy, up until a week before my son was born. I woke up in his bed one Sat. Morning and another women (not the first one he left me for, but another one) woke up in his bed that sunday morning - we did not live together, he was with her for a year. The day i came out of the hospital he flew to florida for a month. Let me mention he has 2 other children who lives with him ( the mother left them in his care) I continued to sleep with him threw out that year ( i wanted my family together). After they split he and i seemed to be workin on "it" for about 6mnths- then he's off with another, she moved in with him only after about 4 or so months -she has her own daughter. They went out of state for about a month because they were thinking of movin-(he did not mention how he thought he would see his son) They never went. Since meeting her he has been asking to pick my son up and leave my son with him for the weekend, for a couple of hours - just leave him so he can visit. I am uncomfortable with this - From the begining he would come to my home or i would go to his for visits - He is not so responsible - he lives with his mother who takes care of the other 2 children who are 5 and 7 (buys them clothes, pays the sitter, cooks them dinner etc). my son gets to see his brother and sister, they have the same sitter. I have told my sons father he can see my son at the sitter or my house - he is not happy with this. Let me remind you he does not have a car seat for my son and He's always in traffic court. He has an inground pool with no fence. I was the one who baby proofed his home - first time i left my son with him for a couple of hours, my son fell down a flight of about 20 or so stairs (thank god he was okay) I ve met her - i may be bias but i dont care for her. They have not been together a year as of yet. I cant stand the thought of leavin my son with him. He has put his hands on me in front of his children, he has kicked me out of his home with my son in my arms, he does not pay child support, he has threatned me. He bought a motorcycle before buying a thing for my son. With all this said i was with him two months ago. That was my last shot at it he lied to me like he always had and i fell for it or at least i was just hopeful. Basically my question is am i just bitter? as he says? will i over come this? should i let go of my son and hope he is not harmed? [This message has been edited by NYsinglemom (edited 10-29-2007).] |
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jasond Member |
posted 11-04-2007 03:36 PM
Sounds like he is a real "winner"! It is so hard to give advice when there only bits and pieces of information but you know better what needs to be done. Protect your kid! Even if you are bitter, ohwell. Sounds like you have reason to be. I would be bitter to if my ex was a cheating, immature, selfish loser. Oh wait.. she was. See I can be bitter too. The point is to let the bitterness go. We all get that way from time to time but it will eat you up. Honestly to me it sounds like you simply want to protect your son from an overgrown child. Legally I don't know what you can do to prevent him from visitation but for sure document what is going on between him, you and your boy. Someday you may need it. For now focus on yourself and stay away from him... Protect and love your son. I hope things work out for you. Good luck. ------------------ |
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