posted 03-27-2007 06:34 PM            

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last night I got tired of my six year old telling me she did want to go to her dads, so I told her to call her dad and talked to him about how she feels. She didn't get a hold of him, instead left a message that she wanted to know "if she had to go to his house anymore, because she didn't want to" ( probably not the most appropriate way to say it, but straight out of her mouth) He called left a message that she didn't have a say in the matter he will tell her when and if he wants to see her and he will decide when, etc.

So, I told her to again call him and try to talk to him. He got on the phone yelled at me- I proceed to tell him she is in counseling, "would you like to go so you two can talk" Then he accuses me of manipulating her, turning her against me and now using the counseling against him, then he wanted to talk again to our daughter. Proceeds to tell her if I don;t drop her off for visitation , he will have me arrested. So now she says she will go so "her mom does nothave to go to jail." Real healthy for a six year old.

Then he tells me he will take me to court for turning his daughter against him-what happens then? On what leg does he have to stand on in that case?

He tells me also he will sue becasue I restricting his visits (yet he was the one who cancelled 6 months last year, three months so far this year, etc. I put her in sport on Saturdays ( but he already cannot drive her anywhere- court ordered- another story) but we had a verbal agreement that we were okay with her playing in the morning Saturday- it was his choice to cancel every Saturday and sometimes Sunday- never complained about that ever. I tried to get that agreement in wirting by certified letter- got no response.

posted 04-01-2007 01:07 AM            

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Here's the latest. My lawyer said jsut to show up for visitation when its his turn- have it documented that we were there( at the local drop place - the police station)

My daughter is in counseling because of her behavoir the past several months have been bad- her biting me, kicking, and screaming and losing control when I say no to her. Well, now the counselor tells me she has to inform the noncustodial parent- her father my ex. The fear I have had through the divorce (probably because of the abuse history toward me) is he would get back at me by trying to take her. Can he sue for custody of her strictly because she doesn't behave for me claiming something like "he needs to remove her from a environment that is causing her behavoir" by trying to blame me for her misbehavoir. Has anyone heard of something like that happening?

posted 09-16-2007 08:07 PM            

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It happened again- he is threatening me to take me court.

My daughter got in trouble at school and I grounded her for two weeks- pushing for the third time antoher child.

I called her father and told him that she is trouble at school- hoping for his support. Instead I got the line "I don't care what happens to her at my house.. thats your house where she will be gorunded not his" ( he had visitation this weekend) I continued to get yelled and asked him he was going to take her still. Instead of answering, I got " see ya in court." yelled at me. What does that mean?

I took her to drop off and he did not show up. I have a signed paper from a police office that we were there like court ordered.

I think he still has it in mind to take me to court for restricting his visits-- does grounded our daughter restrict his visit? I just don't understand.

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