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mommyofthreeTN unregistered |
posted 03-26-2007 05:23 AM
my husband and i have been seperated for about a month after 4 years of fighting i finally decided to just divorce him in his book im not a mother , or a wife just a maid he says im not a mother cause i let my mother keep my 3 year old twins on friday nights and usually on sat nights but thats only been sence my 7 mon old son was born and he was never bothered by it then and im not a wife cause he was raised in a very religious up bringing and i was to a certin point but he was taught that the woman submit in everything and i was raised to be partners and for our first year of marrage it was fine he said he understood and then after the birth of our twin daughters he just changed after that when ever we would argue all i would gets your a b**** and ever other bad thing you could think of so i finally decided to file for divorce but since weve been seperated hes wanting to come over all the time and its not really to see the kids cause when he gets here he just follows me around and on weekends when im out doing things while my mother watches the kids hes always wanting to go with me but he still says he doesnt want to work anything out hes just trying to be frinds every one in my family things i should be mad and mean to him but i guess after how cruel hes been ive just fallen out of love with him and im not bothered by him being around hes been a pretty good father but since the split he hasnt paid any child support hes trying to get primary custody which is what i want hes never helped with the kids that much and ive been there their whole lifes doing everything while hes been working, sleeping but mainly watching tv and getting online. my question im asking is why is he all the sudden acting kind and caring about me he doesnt want to be together but he seems unable to go more than a day without seeing me i dont know what i should do i guess ive been really nice cause im hoping things will work out i hate the thoughts of being divorced with 3 young children and before he started acting this way he was a great man i dont know what i should do , should i just cut him off and not see him at all or should i keep being friends with him i know i have to be nice for the children but hanging like we have been might be too much now |
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