posted 02-10-2007 08:32 AM            

My ex does not really get on with her + has always said that she made his life miserable(maybe that is where his problems lie but thats another story) I was always the one sort of keeping in touch although really she is mean, bitter and annoying.

So now my ex has walked out i would like to tell her to speak with him + stop calling me. We live in another country so i understand that she wants to keep in touch but should i just say speak with your son and if you want to see your grandchildren you need to sort it out with him. I dont want her to stay here she is mean with the kids + annoys me.

She only used to see the kids a couple of times a year anyway so i think i might be tough and say she should speak with him. I think she means well and was wanting to come over "to help" but i dont need this right now it would be more stress but still i feel mean saying directly to her that i want nothing to do with his family.

For the sake of my kids i honestly dont think they miss them at all as his brothers never stay in touch + his mom only comes as she gets a free holiday by the beach(i know that is mean but she was a nightmare when she did stay + my ex would dissappear more + work more hours to avaoid her)