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AloneInTN Member |
posted 11-24-2006 08:39 PM
 
I have been divorced 8 months now, my ex just gave birth to her boyfriends baby. She has had the guy living in the house since I moved out. She asked me the other day why dont I ask how her new baby is doing. She knows I am still hurting, yet she still ask. I hate the fact that she has her boyfriend living there unmarried to her with my little girl in that house, and the fact that he brought his 3 older kids with him. WHAT DO I DO??? |
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atwitsend Member |
posted 11-28-2006 02:34 PM
It sounds like you still have strong feelings for your ex. I hate to say it -- but sometimes it nevers gets easier. My ex has a girlfriend with two kids yet he shows no interest in my child- cancels visitation when she has a cold, doesn;t want to go to any school funcitons of hers. It hurts that they move on so quickly with other children that aren't even theirs. Hang in there- maybe something will come along that makes you not dwell on it too much. Are you afraid of your daughter's safety with boyfriend in the house- have you met him? Best of luck- Believe me I totatlly understand where you are coming from. |
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Teenika4 Member |
posted 12-10-2006 11:04 AM
It happens all the time--I meet or hear about single dads who are trying to do the right thing by their children, but the mothers are acting crazy! I'd LOVE it if my daughter's father cared about my daughter as much as you care about yours. My daughter is 15 and hasn't seen her father in 8 years, and she MAY HAVE talked to him 5 times in that 8 year period(isn't that sad). The last time she called him, he said he would call her back, but never did--that was about 2 years ago! You are a good father--I don't know if you have a relationship with God, but, I can tell you, without God, I could not have made it this far! I will pray for you, because I know this single parent journey is not an easy one. God bless! |
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AloneInTN Member |
posted 12-10-2006 07:55 PM
Teenika, thank you so much for you kind words. Yes my little girl is my life, and I cant go a day without hering her voice. I just wish her mom would stop trying to make me feel bad, as for the other comment that I still have feeling for my ex, no I do not, that I am sure of. After everything she has done to me, there is no way I would get back with her. |
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