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AJM New Member |
posted 06-20-2006 09:41 PM
  
hello to whom may read this . i am new at all this but i will just tell it how it is. my little girl is 2 1/2, i got married to her father just after she turned 1. we did the on and off thing for 4-5 years. he wanted to do his single life and have me on the side. after we got married he changed alot he was the man and was to wear the pants. anyway last summer i started suspecting sexual abuse to our daughter. as she got older she talk more and was saying things that just was not right and doing things to dolls. as i was not for sure because i did not want to acuse him if he was not. it was bought to his attion in oct i was just not being myself and he new something was bothering me. so he says he did not doing anything, things change a little, child not acting out so much or saying things it was an everyday thing when she would be chaged or bathed. come holiday time i left her with him one time. as he started saying you have to trust me. that was the last time. he left for 2 days, came back christmas and new year i wanted to get threw the holiday after that he has been gone for good. now we are dealing with courts. nothing was ever done doctors never reported it to child services i did they sill did nothing same for police. no one has ever talked to him about it, no proof. he wants his vistation time with her plus overnights. i dont understand why he would put his self in this again. i have takin her to a therpist and everything she has done in front of me she has done for the therpist. the courts gave him supervised visits and overnights at his aunts house. i am so anger it has been over six months and he still has not had to answer for why this little child would be doing these things . i know the truth i will always believe her. i was told he would never be put on the stand threw divorce cause the question would be asked if he did this. the day he told me when i don't give him any he does things he don't want to do that was it for me. will he ever go away? he never did anything for her but work and pay the bills i stayed at home. i know he is just doing this to get at me. i just wish he would go away if not i will be the one to leave i will do it the right way to. thanks for reading any thoughts |
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JAYJAY Member |
posted 06-22-2006 02:15 PM
I have just read through your post. I really dont now what to advise for you, |
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jewelz Member |
posted 08-13-2006 01:07 AM
keep talking to everybody and keep track! names, dates, times....my ex lied to child protective services and they were at my house within 3 days! and it had nothing to do with sexual abuse...look online for advocates and start contacting people! |
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