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kimber72 Member |
posted 10-21-2007 09:25 PM
  
LAst night the ex called the girls at 6:45 pm (which is 1/2 hour earlier than normal). He said he was going to Dinner with Robyn and did not want to stop to have to talk to his kids. Robyn is a woman who is very important in his life, closer to him than his own mom is (he is a momma's boy). I just started balling my eyes out, and after I tucked the kids to bed, I started screaming, the pain that I worked so hard to get past came flooding back. I am in so much pain over this becuase he was intoducing his girlfriend, the woman he had an affair with, the woman he now lives with, the woman he left me for, to Robyn a very important person in his life. When I fisrt met Robyn, she told me that my ex told her my ex knew the day he met me he was going to spend the rest of his life with me. I ended up texting him several nasty texts, calling the girlfriend, all sorts of wonderful names. Only having to text him an apology in the AM. But I used one of his lines back on him. "I was drunk and did not know what I was doing." Not that it was true, but I heard that line so often. I thought I was so beyond this....I know I dont want the guy back, I dont want what he has to offer, I am so logically beyond what happend. I cant get past the lies he has told, but I feel so emotionally behind. at least I can say I knew the moment he started the affair and was strong enough to ask him to leave (which he willingly did). I cant wait to get this divorce overwith. Does that proverbial door really close after the papers are signed? |
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shawn single dad |
posted 10-22-2007 09:37 AM
sorry for your sadness... the divorce will help the healing process, but start moving on today. Think about how you want to be in the next ten years, think about taking some classes for a hobby or a your career, make yourself a plan, and maybe some counceling will help. the point is that you are a good woman and you have happiness in front of you. all my best to you and your family |
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